Computer use can be monitored and is impossible to completely clear. If you are afraid your internet usage might be monitored, please use a safer computer. Learn more technology safety tips at NNEDV or call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 and TTY 1-800-787-3224.
myPlan is a tool to help with safety decisions if you, or someone you care about, is experiencing abuse in their intimate relationship.
Download myPlan for free today
Personalized for your situation
Everyone deserves to be safe in their intimate relationship, and every situation is unique. myPlan can help you identify, navigate, and provides resources for a range of relationship abuse concerns:
Your intimate partner relationship
A friend or family member’s relationship
College student relationships
Your relationship’s impact on pregnancy or children
How it works:
Choose which way is the safest for you to use myPlan - download the app onto your smartphone or use the website tool
Choose a secure PIN-code
Ensure only you can access myPlan (false codes will load a neutral screen)
Select your situation
Answer a few questions to better tailor myPlan to your specific needs
Use the decision aid
Weigh your priorities and better understand your risk for danger
Make a plan
Receive personalized safety information and resources to help you decide your best path forward
A tool for advocates & providers
myPlan is a tool that survivors of intimate partner violence can use to help them make decisions about safety. Accessible through a discreet and confidential smartphone app (or web-based tool), myPlan is not meant as a replacement for your expertise--it is designed to encourage the majority of survivors who may never seek services to reach out for help.
Advocates can use myPlan with a client to help facilitate a discussion about their level of danger and their priorities when making difficult safety decisions.
Relationship violence directly affects a person’s health and well-being. Providers can introduce myPlan during a survivor’s health or support visit to use on their own, or can walk through it together with survivors.
Your safety is our greatest concern
After downloading the app, it will be PIN-code protected to keep your information safe. But be aware that if your partner checks your phone or monitors your phone activity, having an app about relationship abuse may put you at further risk. If you are concerned about someone discovering the app, delete it when you are done with it, but know that for most phones it’s not possible to delete the app from your purchase history. Learn more Technology safety tips.
Have a question? Ask us anything.
myPlan is not a crisis line and does not provide direct services.
If you are in immediate danger call 9-1-1.
If you need to find support services in your area contact:
The National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or chat at thehotline.org
The National Dating Violence Hotline at 1-866-331-9474 or text loveis to 22522 or chat at loveisrespect.org
DATA COLLECTION AND USE
The myPlan app does not collect any personal identifying information from users. All information voluntarily entered into myPlan cannot be connected to an individual user. Our servers automatically collect information from users such as the Internet protocol (IP) address used to connect the computer to the Internet, the average time spent on the app, date and time of visit, and pages clicked on, collectively known as “log data”. Log data and self-reported referral source will be used in a research study measuring utilization. This data is being collected between January 2017 and April 2019. After this period, the myPlan project will only be using the referral source data and log data to monitor and analyze use to increase myPlan’s functionality and informing long-term dissemination strategies. This information is being used in summary reports and does not identify specific users.
DATA STORAGE AND PROTECTION
All data collected by the myPlan app is stored on a secure server located within a large academic medical center following HIPAA guidelines for storage of medical and identifying information. Only authorized team members of the myPlan project have access to this data.
None of the data collected by myPlan is shared with any other entities or third-parties.
myPlan contains links to other websites. Please note that when you click on one of these links, you are entering another website for which myPlan has no responsibility. We encourage you to read the privacy statements on all such sites as their policies may differ from ours.